Counselling with Jules

Counselling  ◊  Supervision

Live Your Best Life, One Part at a Time

“Healing means accepting all parts of ourselves, not just the parts we like, but all of us.”

Louise Hay

You’re invited

to meet all your different parts. From the responsible and protective managers to the playful, sometimes destructive firefighters to the wounded exiles. Together, you can learn to understand and accept all of your parts, and work together to create a more whole and healthy you.

 

Parts work can help you to:

Understand your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors better
Heal past trauma and pain
Develop healthier coping mechanisms
Improve your relationships
Develop Self-leadership

Imagine your mind is a party, and you’re the host

It’s your job to make sure everyone feels welcome. But sometimes, the guests behaviour can get a little out of hand. That’s where parts work comes in.

Parts work is a way of welcoming and getting to know all of the different parts of your mind. And it’s not just the parts you like. It’s the parts that are scared, the parts that are angry, the parts that are sad, the parts that sabotage you, hold you back, and the parts that make you behave in ways you’re not entirely proud of.

Work with your Inner Resources, Develop Self-Leadership and Take Control of Your Life

Parts work (aka Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy) is a powerful therapeutic approach for self-awareness, healing, and self-leadership, allowing individuals to understand, integrate, and harmonize the various aspects of their inner world, leading to improved emotional well-being and personal growth.

It’s not just you in there. Your mind is full of different parts, or subpersonalities. Each part has its own unique thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

  • Managers  they try and make sure everything runs smoothly and that you stay safe.
  • Firefighters are the ones who jump into action when things get too hot. They might try to distract you, numb your pain, or even lash out.
  • Exiles are the parts that have been hurt in the past. They might feel scared, sad, or angry.

Healing with parts work

All of these parts are trying to help you in their own way. But sometimes, they can get in each other’s way and yours. That’s where parts work comes in. It’s a way of getting to know all of your parts and learning how to work with them in a healthy way.

Healing through parts work involves understanding and addressing the needs, emotions, and beliefs of these different parts in order to bring about integration and harmony within yourself. This approach emphasizes self-leadership, where you learn to cultivate self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-acceptance, and take on the role of a compassionate inner leader who can guide and nurture your internal parts.

You will develop a deeper understanding of your internal world, identify and heal inner conflicts, and work towards integration and balance within yourself.

How I can help you

 

I’m here to help you unleash your inner superhero.

I can help you unlock your inner compassion, strength, and  wisdom.

I can help you build your confidence, your resilience, and your self-esteem.

I can help you create a life that is authentic, full of joy, love, and abundance.

So what are you waiting for?

Let’s Heal Your Emotional Wounds!

 

I know. It sounds like a lot of work. But it’s not as bad as it sounds. In fact, it can be kind of fun.

Imagine you’re a little kid who’s been hurt. You’re scared, you’re sad, and you don’t know what to do. So you run away and hide.

But you can’t hide forever. Eventually, you have to come out and face your fears. And that’s what we’re going to do together.

We’re going to find those wounded parts of yourself and bring them out of hiding. We’re going to listen to them, we’re going to understand them, and we’re going to help them heal.

It won’t be easy. But it will be worth it.

Because when you heal your emotional wounds, you free yourself to live a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling life.

Counselling is a collaborative process, and your active participation and commitment to self-care are essential. By working together, I can support you in developing and leveraging positive inner resources to enhance your well-being and personal growth.